Understand and Use Dreams to Learn and Forget | Huberman Lab Essentials
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In this episode of Huberman Lab Essentials, Dr. Andrew Huberman explores the physiological mechanisms behind dreaming and its critical roles in learning and unlearning information during sleep. He explains that human sleep is organized into approximately 90-minute ultradian cycles, with early-night cycles dominated by slow-wave sleep (SWS) or non-REM sleep, which facilitates motor skill acquisition and detailed memory consolidation. As the night progresses toward morning, these cycles shift to include a higher percentage of rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Huberman details that SWS is characterized by low levels of acetylcholine but significant serotonin activity, creating an environment conducive to physical learning without focus on specific sensory inputs. Conversely, REM sleep features erratic eye movements generated by brain stem circuits and involves the absence of epinephrine—the chemical signature of fear and anxiety—as well as norepinephrine and serotonin. This unique neurochemical state allows individuals to experience vivid hallucinations or replays of daily events without feeling intense emotion, effectively dissociating emotional load from memories. The distinction between these sleep stages has profound implications for how we process trauma and form meaning. Huberman notes that REM sleep is essential for unlearning challenging emotional events because the lack of epinephrine prevents the brain from attaching fear responses to experiences during dreaming. He draws parallels between natural REM processes and clinical interventions like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and ketamine therapy, both designed to help patients uncouple intense emotions from traumatic memories. EMDR utilizes lateralized eye movements that suppress amygdala activity similar to the way self-generated movement during waking hours or specific sleep dynamics function, while ketamine blocks NMDA receptors to prevent long-term potentiation of emotional pathways immediately following trauma. Huberman emphasizes that REM sleep acts as a form of nightly "self-induced therapy," allowing the brain to discard irrelevant meanings and regulate emotionality; without sufficient REM sleep, individuals often become irritable, catastrophize small issues, and struggle to move forward in life due to an inability to properly filter emotional responses. To optimize these learning processes, Huberman provides actionable advice on how to manipulate sleep architecture for specific needs. He suggests that engaging in resistance exercise before bed can significantly increase the percentage of slow-wave sleep early in the night, thereby enhancing motor and detail-based memory consolidation without disrupting other sleep components. However, he warns against substances like alcohol, marijuana (THC), or high doses of tryptophan/5-HTP supplements right before sleeping, as these disrupt the natural sequencing of SWS and REM by artificially elevating serotonin or GABA levels. Additionally, consuming large amounts of fluids immediately prior to sleep is discouraged because bladder fullness triggers neural circuits that wake individuals up during the night, fragmenting sleep cycles and reducing total REM duration. Huberman also highlights the importance of consistency over quantity; maintaining a regular schedule with about six hours of consistent sleep often yields better cognitive results than erratic patterns involving eight or nine hours on some nights but less on others. Ultimately, the episode concludes that mastering one's sleep is fundamental to mental health and performance because it directly governs our capacity for emotional regulation and memory formation. Huberman reiterates that while SWS handles motor skills and specific details, REM sleep manages emotions, general themes, and meaning-making by stripping away fear responses during dream states. He points out that disruptions in temperature regulation associated with menopause can impact emotionality through changes in sleep patterns rather than hormonal shifts alone, underscoring the systemic nature of sleep health. The takeaway is clear: just as clinical therapies like EMDR or ketamine are used to treat trauma by chemically or behaviorally altering emotional processing, natural REM sleep performs a similar function every night for everyone who sleeps soundly. By understanding and respecting these biological rhythms—prioritizing resistance exercise early in the day, avoiding alcohol before bed, and maintaining consistent wake times—one can leverage their own physiology to learn effectively and unlearn distressing experiences without relying solely on external medical interventions.
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Welcome to Huberman Lab Essentials,
where we revisit past episodes for the
most potent and actionable science-based
tools for mental health, physical
health, and performance.
I'm Andrew Huberman, and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and ophthalmology at
Stanford School of Medicine. Today,
we're going to talk about dreaming,
learning during dreaming, as well as
unlearning during dreaming. In
particular, unlearning of challenging
emotional events. Now, numerous people
throughout history have tried to make
sense of dreams in in some sort of
organized way, the most famous of which,
of course, is uh Sigmund Freud, who
talked about symbolic representations in
dreams. A lot of that has been kind of
debunked, although I think that um
there's some interest in what the
symbols of dreaming are. And this is
something that we'll talk about in more
depth today, although not Freudian uh uh
theory uh in particular.
So,
I think in order to really think about
dreams and what to do with them and how
to maximize
the dream experience for sake of
learning and unlearning, the best way to
address this is to look at the
physiology of sleep. To really address,
what do we know concretely about sleep?
So, first of all, as we get sleepy,
we tend to shut our eyes, and that's cuz
there are some autonomic centers in the
brain, some neurons that control closing
of the eyelids when we get sleepy. And
then we transition into sleep. And
sleep, regardless of how long we sleep,
is generally broken up into a series of
90-minute cycles, these ultradian
cycles. So, early in the night,
these 90-minute cycles tend to be
comprised more of shallow sleep and slow
wave sleep. And we tend to have less
so-called REM sleep, REM sleep, which
stands for rapid eye movement sleep. For
every 90-minute cycle that we have
during a night of sleep, we tend to
start having more and more REM sleep.
So, more of that 90-minute cycle is
comprised of REM sleep and less of slow
wave sleep. Now, this is true regardless
of whether or not you wake up in the
middle of the night to use the restroom
or your sleep is broken.
The more sleep you're getting across the
night, the more REM sleep you're going
to have. And REM sleep and non-REM as
I'll refer to it, have distinctly
different roles in learning and
unlearning, and they are responsible for
learning and unlearning of distinctly
different types of information. And this
has enormous implications for learning
of motor skills,
for unlearning of traumatic events, or
for processing emotionally challenging
as well as emotionally pleasing events.
And as we'll see, one can actually
leverage their daytime activities in
order to access more slow wave sleep or
non-REM sleep as we'll call it, or more
REM sleep depending on your particular
emotional and physical needs. So, it's
really a remarkable stage of life that
we have a lot more control and power
over than you might believe. So, let's
start by talking about slow wave sleep
or non-REM sleep. So, slow wave sleep is
characterized
by a particular pattern of brain
activity in which the brain is
metabolically active, but that there's
these big sweeping waves of activity
that include a lot of the brain. Now,
the interesting thing about slow wave
sleep are the neuromodulators
that tend to be associated with it that
are most active and least active during
slow wave sleep. And here's why.
To remind you, neuromodulators are these
chemicals that act rather slowly, but
their main role is to bias particular
brain circuits to be active and other
brain circuits to not be active. And
they are associated as a consequence
with certain brain functions. So, we
know for instance, and just to review,
acetylcholine in waking states is a
neuromodulator that tends to amplify the
activity of brain circuits associated
with focus and attention. Norepinephrine
is a neuromodulator that tends to
amplify the brain circuits associated
with alertness and the desire to move.
Serotonin is the neuromodulator that's
released and tends to amplify the
circuits in the brain and body that are
associated with bliss and the desire to
remain still.
And dopamine is the neuromodulator
that's released and is associated with
amplification of the neural circuits in
the brain and body associated with
pursuing goals and pleasure and reward.
So,
in slow wave sleep, something really
interesting happens. There's essentially
no acetylcholine.
And acetylcholine, as I just mentioned,
is associated with focus. So, you can
think of slow wave sleep as these big
sweeping waves of activity through the
brain and a kind of distortion of space
and time so that we're not really
focusing on any one thing.
Now, the other molecules that are very
active at that time are norepinephrine,
which is a little bit surprising cuz
normally in waking states,
norepinephrine is going to be associated
with a lot of alertness and the desire
to move. But there's not a ton of
norepinephrine around in slow wave
sleep, but it is around. So, there's
something associated with the movement
circuitry going on in slow wave sleep.
And remember, this is happening mostly
at the beginning of the night. Your
sleep is dominated by slow wave sleep.
So, very no acetylcholine, very little
norepinephrine, although there is some,
and a lot of serotonin. And serotonin,
again, is associated with this desire,
uh the sensation of kind of bliss or
well-being, but not a lot of movement.
And during sleep,
you tend not to move. Now, in slow wave
sleep, you can move. You're not
paralyzed, so you can roll over. If
people are going to sleepwalk,
typically, it's going to be during slow
wave sleep.
And
what studies have shown
through some, um
kind of sadistic experiments where
people are deprived specifically of slow
wave sleep, and that can be done by
waking them up in the as soon as the
electrode recordings show that they're
in slow wave sleep, or by uh chemically
altering their sleep so that it biases
them away from slow wave sleep. What
studies have shown is that motor
learning
is generally occurring in slow wave
sleep. So, let's say the day before you
go to sleep, you were learning some new
dance
move, or you were learning some specific
motor skill, either a fine motor skill
or a coarse motor skill. Learning of
those skills
is happening primarily during slow wave
sleep in the early part of the night. In
addition, slow wave sleep has been shown
to be important for the learning of
detailed information. So, we can think
of slow wave sleep as important for
motor learning,
motor skill learning, and for the
learning of specific details about
specific events.
And this turns out to be fundamentally
important because now we know that
slow wave sleep is primarily in the
early part of the night, and motor
learning is occurring primarily early in
the night, and detail learning is
occurring early in the night. I want to
talk about REM sleep, or rapid eye
movement sleep.
REM sleep and rapid eye movement sleep,
as I mentioned before, occurs throughout
the night, but you're going to have more
of it, a larger percentage of these
90-minute sleep cycles is going to be
comprised of REM sleep as you get toward
morning.
REM sleep is fascinating. It was
discovered in the '50s when uh sleep
laboratory in Chicago, um the
researchers observed that people's eyes
were moving under their eyelids. Now,
something very important that we're
going to address when we talk about
trauma later is that the eye movements
are not just side-to-side. They're very
erratic and all different directions.
One thing that I don't think anyone uh
I've I've never heard anyone really talk
about publicly is why eye movements
during sleep.
Right? Eyes are closed, and sometimes
people's eyelids will be a little bit
open and their eyes are darting around,
especially in little kids. I don't
suggest you do this. I'm not even sure
it's ethical, but it has been done where
you, you know, pull back the eyelids of
a kid while they're sleeping and their
eyes are kind of darting all over the
place. Rapid eye movement sleep is
fascinating and occurs be- because there
are connections between the brain stem,
an area called the pons,
and areas of the thalamus and the top of
the brain stem that are involved in
generating movements in different
directions. Sometimes called saccades,
although sometimes during rapid eye
movement sleep, it's not just rapid,
it's kind of a jittery side-to-side
thing and then the eyeballs kind of
roll. It's really pretty creepy to look
at if you see.
So,
what's happening there is the circuitry
that's involved in conscious eye
movements is kind of going haywire, but
it's not haywire. It's these waves of
activity from the brain stem up to the
so-called thalamus, which is a area that
filters sensory information, and then up
to the cortex.
And the cortex, of course, is involved
in conscious perceptions.
In REM sleep, serotonin is essentially
absent. Okay? So, this molecule, this
neuromodulator that tends to create the
feeling of bliss and well-being and just
calm placidity, is absent. In addition
to that,
norepinephrine, this molecule that's
involved in movement and alertness, is
absolutely absent. It's probably one of
the few times in our life that
epinephrine is essentially at zero
activity within our system. And that has
a number of very important implications
for the sorts of dreaming that occur
during REM sleep and the sorts of
learning that can occur in REM sleep and
unlearning. First of all, in REM sleep,
we are paralyzed. We are We are
experiencing what's called atonia, which
just means that we're completely laid
out and paralyzed. We also tend to
experience whatever it is that we're
dreaming about as a kind of
hallucination or a hallucinatory
activity.
So, in REM, our eyes are moving, but the
rest of our body is paralyzed, and we
are hallucinating. There's no
epinephrine around.
Epinephrine doesn't just create a desire
to move and alertness. It is also the
chemical signature of fear and anxiety.
It's what's released from our adrenal
glands when we experience something
that's fearful or alerting. So, if a car
suddenly screeches in front of us or we
get a troubling text message, adrenaline
is deployed into our system. Adrenaline
is epinephrine. Those are equivalent
molecules.
And epinephrine isn't just released from
our adrenals, it's also released within
our brain.
So, there's this weird stage of our life
that happens more toward morning that we
call REM sleep where we're hallucinating
and having these outrageous experiences
in our mind, but the chemical that's
associated with fear and panic and
anxiety is not available to us.
And that turns out to be very important.
And you can imagine why that's
important. It's important because it
allows allows us to experience things,
both replay of things that did occur as
well as elaborate contortions of things
that didn't occur,
and it allows us to experience those in
the absence of fear and anxiety. So, we
have this incredible period of sleep in
which our experience of emotionally
laden events is dissociated. It's
chemically blocked from us having the
actual emotion. So,
to just recap where we've gone so far,
slow wave sleep early in the night it's
been shown to be important for motor
learning and for detailed learning.
REM sleep has a certain dream component
when which there's no epinephrine,
therefore we can't experience anxiety,
we are paralyzed. Those dreams tend to
be really vivid and have a lot of detail
to them. And yet in REM sleep, what's
very clear is that the sorts of learning
that happen in REM sleep are not motor
events. It's more about unlearning of
emotional events. And now we know why,
because the chemicals available for
uh
really feeling those emotions are not
present.
Now, that has very important
implications. So, let's address those
implications from two sides. First of
all, we should ask what happens if we
don't get enough REM sleep. And a
scenario that happens a lot where people
don't get enough REM sleep is the
following.
I'll just explain the one that uh I'm
familiar with cuz it happens to me a
lot, although I figured out ways to
adjust.
I go to sleep around 10:30, 11:00.
I fall asleep very easily, and then I
wake up
around 3:00 or 4:00 a.m. I now know to
use a NSDR, a non-sleep deep rest
protocol,
and that allows me to fall back asleep.
Even though it's called non-sleep deep
rest, it's really allows me to relax my
body and brain, and I tend to fall back
asleep and sleep till about 7:00 a.m.,
during which time I get a lot of REM
sleep. And I know this because I've
measured it, and I know this because my
dreams tend to be very intense,
um of the sort that we know is typical
of REM sleep.
In this scenario,
I've gotten my slow-wave sleep early in
the night, and I've got my REM sleep
toward morning.
However, there are times when I don't go
back to sleep. Maybe I have a flight to
catch, that's happened. Sometimes I've
got a lot on my mind and I don't go back
to sleep.
I can tell you, and you've probably
experienced that the lack of REM sleep
tends to make people emotionally
irritable. It tends to make us feel as
if the little things are the big things.
So, it's very clear from laboratory
studies where people have been deprived
selectively of REM sleep that our
emotionality tends to get a little bit
unhinged and we tend to catastrophize
small things. We tend to feel like the
world is really daunting, we're never
going to move forward in the ways that
we want, we can't unlearn the emotional
components of whatever it is that's been
happening, even if it's not traumatic.
The other thing that happens in REM
sleep is a replay of certain types of
spatial information about where we were
and why we were in those places. And
this maps to some beautiful data and
studies that were initiated by a guy
named Matt Wilson at MIT years ago
showing that in rodents, and it turns
out in other in non-human primates and
in humans, there's a replay of spatial
information during REM sleep that almost
precisely maps to the activity that we
experienced during the day as we move
from one place to another. So, here's a
common world scenario. You go to a new
place,
you navigate through that city or that
environment. This place doesn't have to
be you know, at the scale of a city. It
could be a new building, could be a
finding particular rooms, new social
interaction. You experience that and if
it's important enough,
that becomes solidified a few days later
and you won't forget it. If it's
unimportant, you'll probably forget it.
During REM sleep, there's an there's a
literal replay of the exact firing of
the neurons that occurred while you were
navigating that same city or building
earlier. So, REM sleep seems to be
involved in the the generation of this
detailed spatial information.
But, what is it that's actually
happening in REM sleep?
So, there's this uncoupling of emotion,
but most of all what's happening in REM
sleep is that we're forming a
relationship with particular rules or
algorithms. We're starting to figure out
based on all the experience that we had
during the day, whether or not it's
important that we avoid certain people
or that we approach certain people.
Whether or not it's important that um
you know, when we enter a building that
we go into the elevator and um turn left
where the bathroom is, for instance.
These general themes of things and
locations and how they fit together. And
that has a word. It's called meaning.
During our day, we're experiencing all
sorts of things. Meaning is how we each
individually piece together the
relevance of one thing to the next.
Right? So, if I suddenly uh told you
that um you know, this pen was
downloading all the information to my
brain that was important to deliver this
information, you'd probably think I was
a pretty strange character because
typically we don't think of pens as
downloading information into brains.
But, if I told you that I was getting
information from my computer that was
allowing me to
um say things uh to you, you'd say,
"Well, that's perfectly reasonable." And
that's because we have a clear and
agreed-upon association with computers
and information and memory. Um and we
don't have that same association with
pens.
You might say, "Well, duh." But,
something in our brain needs to solidify
those relationships and make sure that
the certain relationships don't exist.
And it appears that REM sleep is
important for that because when you
deprive yourself or people of of REM,
they start seeing odd associations. And
we know that if people are deprived of
REM sleep for very long periods of time,
they start hallucinating. They literally
start seeing relationships and movement
of objects that isn't happening.
And so, REM sleep is really where we
establish the emotional load, but where
we also start discarding of all the
meanings that are irrelevant. And if you
think about emotionality, a lot of
over-emotionality
or catastrophizing is about seeing
problems everywhere. It's very
important, in order to have healthy the
and cognitive functioning, that we have
fairly narrow channels between
individual things. If we see something
on the news that's very troubling, well,
then it makes sense to be very troubled.
But, if we're troubled by everything and
we start just saying, you know,
everything is bothering me and I'm
feeling highly irritable and everything
is just distorting and troubling me,
chances are we are not
actively removing the meaning, the
connectivity between life experiences as
well as we could. And that almost always
maps back to a deficit in REM sleep. So,
REM sleep seems to be where we uncouple
the potential for emotionality between
various experiences.
And that brings us to the absolutely
fundamental relationship and similarity
of REM sleep to some of the clinical
practices that have been designed to
eliminate emotionality and help people
move through trauma and other troubling
experiences. Many of you perhaps have
heard of trauma treatment such as EMDR,
eye movement desensitization
reprocessing,
or ketamine treatment for trauma,
something that recently became legal and
is in fairly widespread clinical use.
Interestingly enough, EMDR and ketamine
at kind of a core level bear very
similar features to REM sleep.
So, let's talk about EMDR first. Uh EMDR
eye movement desensitization
reprocessing is something that was
developed by a psychologist, Francine
Shapiro.
She actually was in Palo Alto.
Um and the story goes that she was
walking,
not so incidentally, in the trees and
forest behind Stanford,
and she was recalling a troubling event
in her own mind. So, this would be from
her own life.
And she realized that as she was
walking, the emotional load of that
experience was not as intense or severe.
She extrapolated from that experience
of walking and not feeling as stressed
about the stressful event to a practice
that she put into work in with her
clients, with her patients
and that now has become fairly
widespread. It's actually one of the few
behaviorally the behavior treatments
that are approved by the American
Psychological Association for the
treatment of trauma.
What she had her clients and patients do
was move their eyes from side to side
while recounting some traumatic or
troubling event. Why eye movements?
Well, she never really said why eye
movements, but um soon I'll tell you why
the decision to select these lateralized
eye movements for the work in the clinic
was the right one.
So, these eye movements, they look
silly, but they basically involve
sitting in a chair and moving one's eyes
from side to side for 30-60 seconds,
then describing this challenging
procedure.
Now
as a vision scientist who also works on
stress
when I first heard this, I thought it
was crazy, frankly. Um people would ask
me about EMDR and I just thought that's
crazy. I went and looked up some of the
theories about why EMDR might work
and
there were a bunch of theories. Oh, it
mimics the eye movements during REM
sleep. That was one. Turns out that's
not true and I'll explain why.
The other one was oh, it synchronizes
the the activity on the two sides of the
brain. Well, sort of. I mean, when you
look into both sides of the binocular
visual field, you activate the visual
cortex, but
this whole idea of synchrony between the
two sides of the brain is something that
I think modern neuroscience is starting
to um
let's just say uh gently or not so
gently uh move away from
this whole right brain uh left brain
business.
Turns out, however, that eye movements
of the sort that I just did and that
Francine Shapiro took from this walk
experience and brought to the her
clients in in the uh clinic
are the sorts of eye movements that you
generate whenever you're moving through
space, when you are self-generating that
movement. So, not so much when you're
driving a car, but certainly if you were
riding a bicycle or you were walking or
you were running, you don't realize it,
but you have these reflexive
subconscious eye movements that go from
side to side, and they are associated
with the motor system. So, when you move
forward, your eyes go like this.
There've been a number of studies
showing that these lateralized eye
movements helped people
move through or dissociate the emotional
experience of particular traumas with
those experiences such that they could
re- recall those experiences after the
treatment and not feel stressed about
them or they didn't report them as
traumatic any longer. Now, the success
rate wasn't 100%, but they were
statistically significant in a number of
studies. In the last 5 years, there have
been no fewer than five journals and and
papers showing that lateralized eye
movements of the sort that I just did,
and if you're just listening to this,
it's just sweep that moving the eyes
from side to side with eyes open,
that those eye movements, but not
vertical eye movements, suppress the
activity of the amygdala, which is this
brain region
that is involved in threat detection,
stress, anxiety, and fear.
There are some forms of fear that are
not amygdala-dependent, but the
amygdala, it's not a fear center, but it
is critical for the fear
response and for the experience of
anxiety. So, that's interesting. We've
got a clinical tool now that indeed
shows a lot of success in a good number
of people
where eye movements from side to side
are suppressing the amygdala, and the
general theme is to use those eye
movements to suppress the fear response,
and then to recount or repeat the
experience and over time uncouple the
heavy emotional load, the sadness, the
depression, the anxiety, the fear from
whatever it was that happened that was
traumatic. This is important to
understand because
you know, I'd love to be able to tell
somebody who had a traumatic experience
that they would forget that experience.
But, the truth is you never forget the
traumatic experience. What you do is you
remove the emotional load of eventually
it really does lose its potency.
The emotional potency is alleviated.
Now, EMDR I should just mention
tends to be most successful for single
event or very specific kinds of trauma
that happen over and over as opposed to
say an entire childhood or an entire
divorce. It they tend to be
um it tends to be most effective for
single event kinds of things, car
crashes, etc. Where people can really
recall the events in quite a lot of
detail. It's not for everybody and it
should be done uh if it's going to be
done for trauma, it should be done in a
clinical setting with somebody who's um
certified to do this. But, that bears a
lot of resemblance to REM sleep, right?
This experience in our sleep where our
eyes are movement moving, excuse me,
although in a different way, but we
don't have the chemical epinephrine in
order to generate the fear response and
yet we're remembering the event from the
previous day or days. And then now
there's this chemical treatment with the
drug ketamine, which also bears a lot of
resemblance to the sorts of things that
happen in REM sleep. Ketamine is a
dissociative anesthetic. It is
remarkably similar to the drug called
PCP,
which
is certainly a hazardous drug for people
to use.
Ketamine and PCP
both
function to disrupt the activity of a
particular receptor in the brain called
the NMDA receptor. N-methyl-D-aspartate
receptor.
This is a receptor that's in the surface
of neurons or on the surface of neurons
for which
most of the time it's not active.
But when something very extreme happens
and there's a lot of activity in the
neural pathway that impinges on that
receptor,
it opens and it allows the entry of
molecules, ions,
that
trigger a cellular process that we call
long-term potentiation.
And long-term potentiation translates to
a change in connectivity so that later
you don't need that intense event for
the same for the neuron to become active
again. Ketamine
blocks this NMDA receptor. So, how is
ketamine being used? Ketamine is being
used to prevent learning of emotions
very soon after trauma. Ketamine is
being stocked in a number of different
emergency rooms where if people are
brought in quickly and you know, these
are hard to describe even, but you know,
a horrible experience of you know,
somebody seeing a loved one next to them
killed in a car accident and they were
driving that car.
This isn't for everybody uh certainly
and you need to talk to your physician,
but ketamine is being used so they might
infuse somebody with ketamine so that
their emotion is
it can still occur, but that the that
the plasticity, the change in the wiring
of their brain
won't allow that intense emotion to be
attached to the experience. Now,
immediately you can imagine the sort of
ethical implications of this, right?
Because certain emotions need to be
coupled to experiences, but in the
clinical setting, the basis of
ketamine-assisted therapies is really to
remove emotion. Ketamine is about
becoming dissociative or removed from
the emotional component of experience.
So, now we have ketamine, which
chemically blocks plasticity and
prevents the the connection between an
emotion and an experience. That's a
pharmacological intervention. We have
EMDR, which is this eye movement thing
that is designed to suppress the
amygdala and is designed to remove
emotionality while somebody recounts an
experience. And we have REM sleep where
the chemical epinephrine that
allows for signaling of intense emotion
to and the experience of intense emotion
in the brain and body is not allowed.
And so we're starting to see a
organizational logic, which is that a
certain component of our sleeping life
is acting like therapy. And that's
really what REM sleep is about.
So,
we should really think about REM sleep
and slow wave sleep as both critical.
Slow wave sleep for motor learning and
detailed learning, REM sleep for
attaching of emotions to particular
experiences, and then for
making sure that the emotions are not
attached to the wrong experiences and
for unlearning emotional responses if
they're too intense or severe. And this
all speaks to the great importance of
mastering one's sleep, something that we
talked about in episode
two of the podcast, and making sure that
if life has disruptive events,
either due to travel or stress or um
changes in school or or food schedule,
something that we talked about in
episodes three and four, that one can
still grab a hold and manage one's sleep
life. Because fundamentally, the
unlearning of emotions that are
troubling to us is what allows us to
move forward in life. And indeed, the
REM deprivation studies show that people
become hyper emotional. They start to
catastrophize. And it's no surprise,
therefore, that sleep disturbances
correlate with so many emotional and
psychological disturbances. By now, it
should just be obvious why that would be
the case. I was in a discussion with a
colleague of mine um who's down in
Australia, Dr. Sara McKay. I've known
her for two decades now from the time
she was at Oxford.
And Sara studies
among other things menopause in the
brain. And she was saying that a lot of
the emotional
effects of menopause actually are not
directly related to the hormones.
There've been some really nice studies
showing that the disruptions in
temperature regulation in menopause map
to changes in sleep regulation
that then impact emotionality and an
inability to correctly adjust the
circuits related to emotionality. So,
sleep deprivation isn't just deprivation
of of energy. It's not just deprivation
of immune function. It is deprivation of
self-induced therapy every time we go to
sleep. So, these things like EMDR and
ketamine therapies are in-clinic
therapies, but REM sleep is the one that
you're giving yourself every night when
you go to sleep. Which raises, I think,
the other important question, which is
how to get and how to know if you're
getting the appropriate amount of REM
sleep and slow-wave sleep. Turns out
that for sake of learning new
information, limiting the variation in
the amount of your sleep
is at least as important and perhaps
more important than just getting more
sleep overall. I find great relief
personally in the fact that consistently
getting, for me, about 6 hours
or 6 and 1/2 hours is going to be more
beneficial than constantly striving for
8 or 9 and finding that some nights I'm
getting five and sometimes I'm getting
nine and varying around the mean. Now,
ideally, you're getting the the full
complement of slow-wave sleep early in
night and sleep toward morning, which is
REM sleep, which brings us to how to get
more REM sleep. Well, there come couple
different ways, but
um here's how to not get more REM sleep,
all right? First of all, drink a lot of
fluid
right before going to sleep. One of the
reasons why we wake up in the middle of
the night to use the bathroom is because
when our bladder is full,
there is a neural connection, literally
a a set of neurons and a nerve circuit
that goes to the brain stem that wakes
us up. So, having a full bladder is one
way to disrupt your sleep. The other one
is a tryptophan or anything that
contains 5-HTP, which is um serotonin or
a precursor to serotonin. Serotonin is
made from tryptophan. For some people
those supplements might work, but beware
serotonin supplements at um
could disrupt the timing of REM sleep
and slow wave sleep. Now, if you want to
increase your slow wave sleep, that's
interesting. Uh there are ways to do
that. One of the most powerful ways to
increase slow wave sleep,
the percentage of slow wave sleep,
apparently without any disruption to the
other components of of sleep and
learning,
is to engage in resistance exercise.
It's pretty clear that resistance
exercise triggers a number of metabolic
and endocrine pathways that
lend themselves to release of growth
hormone, which happens early in the
night.
And resistance exercise, therefore, can
induce
a greater percentage of slow wave sleep.
It doesn't have to be done very close to
going to bed time. In fact, for some
people that the exercise could be
disruptive for reasons I've talked about
in previous episodes. But resistance
exercise, unlike aerobic exercise, does
seem to increase the amount of slow wave
sleep, which as we know is involved in
motor learning and the acquisition of
fine detailed information, not general
rules or the emotional components of
experiences.
Alcohol. Alcohol and marijuana are well
known to induce states that are
pseudo sleep-like, especially when
people fall asleep um while after having
consumed alcohol or um THC, the active
component, one of the active components
in marijuana.
Alcohol, THC, and most
things like them, meaning things that
increase serotonin
um or GABA, are going to disrupt the
pattern of sleep. They're going to
disrupt the depth, they're going to
disrupt the overall sequencing of more
slow wave sleep early in the night and
more REM sleep later in the night.
That's just the the reality. Now, of
course, if that's what you need in order
to sleep and that's within your
protocols I've said here before, I'm not
suggesting people take anything I'm not
a medical doctor, I'm not a cop, so I'm
not trying to regulate anyone's
behavior. I'm just telling you what the
literature says.
Today we've been in a deep dive of sleep
and dreaming,
learning and unlearning, and I just want
to recap a few of the highlights and
important points.
A lot more slow wave sleep and less REM
early in the night, more REM and less
slow wave sleep later in the night.
REM sleep is associated with intense
experiences without this chemical
epinephrine that allows us the anxiety
or fear and almost certainly has an
important role in
uncoupling of emotion from experiences.
Kind of self-induced therapy that we go
into each night.
That bears striking resemblance to
things like EMDR and ketamine therapies
and so forth.
Slow wave sleep is critical, however,
it's critical mostly for motor learning
and the learning of specific details.
So, REM is kind of emotions and general
themes,
and meaning, and slow wave sleep motor
learning and details.
I personally find it fascinating that
consistency of sleep, meaning getting 6
hours every night is better than getting
10 one night, eight the next, five the
next, four the next.
I find that fascinating and and I think
I also like it because it's something I
can control better than just trying to
sleep more, which I think I'm not alone
in agreeing that that's just hard for a
lot of people to do. Thank you for
joining me in this journey of the
nervous system and biology and trying to
understand the mechanisms that make us
who we are and how we function in sleep
and in wakefulness.
It's really an incredible landscape to
consider and I hope that you're getting
a lot out of the information. As always,
thank you for your interest in science.