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In this episode of Huberman Lab Essentials, Professor Andrew Huberman explores the neurobiology and psychology behind habit formation and breaking, emphasizing that up to 70% of waking behavior is habitual. He distinguishes between immediate goal-based habits, which focus on specific outcomes like completing a cardio session, and identity-based habits, where actions are linked to becoming a certain type of person, such as "a fit athlete." Huberman debunks the myth that it takes exactly 21 days to form a habit; instead, citing a 2010 study by Lally et al., he notes that forming a new behavior can take anywhere from 18 to 254 days depending on individual variability. Central to this process is his concept of "limbic friction," which describes the activation energy or strain required to overcome states of anxiety, fatigue, or lack of motivation before engaging in an activity. To successfully build habits, Huberman introduces two critical concepts: procedural memory and task bracketing. Procedural memory involves mentally stepping through the specific sequence of actions for a habit once or twice, which primes the neural circuits needed for execution. Task bracketing refers to the activation of the dorsal lateral striatum in the basal ganglia at both the beginning and end of an activity, creating a robust neural imprint that makes behavior context-independent. This mechanism allows habits to be performed reflexively regardless of external circumstances like sleep quality or location. Huberman argues that relying on specific times of day is less effective than anchoring behaviors to one's internal physiological state; therefore, he divides the 24-hour cycle into three phases based on neurochemistry: Phase One (0–8 hours post-waking) for high-friction tasks when norepinephrine and dopamine are elevated; Phase Two (9–15 hours) for mellower activities as serotonin rises; and Phase Three (16–24 hours) dedicated to deep sleep where low light and temperature facilitate the consolidation of neural rewiring. Huberman also outlines a practical 21-day system designed to build multiple habits simultaneously without causing overwhelm. The protocol involves listing six new behaviors daily with the expectation that four or five will be completed, thereby building "the habit of performing habits" rather than focusing solely on specific outcomes. This approach incorporates built-in permission for failure and discourages compensation strategies like over-exercising after a missed day. Once these 21 days are complete, individuals assess which behaviors have become automatic; those that remain sporadic or failed can be reintroduced in future cycles only after achieving context independence across the original set. The ultimate goal is to reach a state where habits require minimal limbic friction and can be executed flexibly at any time of day. Finally, the discussion addresses how to break unwanted habits by leveraging immediate replacement behaviors rather than relying on willpower alone. Since bad habits often occur too quickly for conscious intervention, Huberman suggests that immediately following an undesirable action with a positive, easy-to-execute behavior creates a "double habit" loop. This strategy effectively remaps neural circuits in the basal ganglia to rewrite the script of the old behavior without needing constant self-monitoring. By linking a negative trigger directly to a new positive response, individuals can gradually dismantle maladaptive patterns while simultaneously reinforcing adaptive ones, ultimately supporting mental and physical health through scientifically grounded lifestyle adjustments.
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Welcome to Huberman Lab Essentials,
where we revisit past episodes for the
most potent and actionable science-based
tools for mental health, physical
health, and performance.
I'm Andrew Huberman, and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and ophthalmology at
Stanford School of Medicine.
Today, we're talking all about habits.
In particular, we're going to discuss
the biology of habit formation and the
biology of how we break habits. Habits
are things that our nervous system
learn, but not always consciously.
Sometimes we develop habits that we're
not even aware of
till they become a problem, or maybe
they serve us well, who knows. But the
fact of the matter is that habits are a
big part of who we are. In fact, it's
estimated that up to 70% of our waking
behavior is made up of habitual
behavior. So, if habits are largely
learned, consciously or unconsciously,
we have to ask ourselves, what is
learning? Well, learning is
neuroplasticity. Neuroplasticity is
simply the process by which our nervous
system changes in response to
experience. But at the end of the day,
neuroplasticity is about forming new
neural circuits, new pathways by which
certain habits are likely to occur, and
other ones are less likely to occur. As
many of you are well aware, there are
popular books about habits, and there's
a whole psychological literature about
habits. And those two areas point to
some very interesting aspects of habits
that I think are worth mentioning. First
of all, is this notion of immediate
goal-based habits versus identity-based
habits.
Immediate goal-based habits are going to
be habits that are designed to bring you
a specific outcome as you do them. So,
each and every time you do them. So,
maybe you're somebody that wants to get
more of zone two cardio, for instance.
That would be an immediate goal-based
habit. If your goal is to
get that cardio, maybe a four times a
week,
every time you do it, you could check
off a little box and you'd say, "Okay, I
did it. You me You met the goal."
That is different than so-called
identity-based habits, where there's a
larger overarching theme to the habit,
where you're trying to become, {quote}
"a fit person" or you're somebody who
wants to be
an athlete or something of that sort.
It's where you start to attach some sort
of larger picture about yourself or what
it means for you to do that habit. Where
there's both the immediate goal, right?
Complete the exercise, complete the the
session or whatever it is.
Check off that box, but that you're
linking it to some sort of larger goal.
Another thing that you'll hear out there
in the literature is that it takes 21
days to form a habit. Some people say
18, some people say 21, some people say
30 days, some people say 60 days. So,
which one is it? Does it depend on the
habit that one is trying to form or does
it depend on the person that's trying to
form the habit? It turns out that
there's excellent peer-reviewed data on
this. There's a study published in 2010,
first author Lally, L A L L Y.
This study found that for the same habit
to be formed,
it can take anywhere from 18 days to as
many as 254 days for different
individuals to form that habit. So, for
those of you listening, some of you
might be thinking, "I can't believe that
it would take some people 254 days to
get into that habit." But, as I said,
people are highly variable and if you
can't form one habit easily, it doesn't
mean that you can't form other habits
easily.
The mystery of why certain people can
form certain habits more easily than
others probably has something to do with
how well people manage what's called
limbic friction. Now, limbic friction is
not a term that you're going to find in
the formal neurobiological literature or
even psychological literature. It's,
frankly, a term that I coined to
encompass a number of different pieces
of the psychology and neuroscience
literature.
Limbic friction is a shorthand way that
I use to describe the strain that's
required in order to overcome one of two
states within your body. One state is
one of anxiousness, where you're really
anxious and therefore you can't calm
down, you can't relax, and therefore you
can't engage in some particular activity
or thought pattern that you would like.
The other state is one in which you're
feeling too tired or lazy or not
motivated. Both of those states, feeling
too alert and too calm if you will,
relate to the function of the so-called
autonomic nervous system, a set of
neurons and hormones and chemicals in
your brain and body that act as sort of
a seesaw. You're either alert or calm.
You're either asleep or stressed. Those
two states are not compatible with one
another.
You've probably heard of wired and
tired, but that's really once you've
been very stressed for a long time to
the point where you're exhausted. What
does the autonomic nervous system have
to do with any of this? Well, limbic
friction
is
a phrase that can be used to describe
how much effort, how much activation
energy you need in order to engage in a
particular behavior. A lot of habit
formation has to do with being in the
right state of mind and being able to
control your state of body and mind. So,
as we march forward, what you're going
to find is that this phrase or this term
limbic friction is going to be a useful
metric or way for you to touch in with
yourself and address whether or not you
are likely to be able to form a certain
habit easily or whether or not it's
going to be very challenging. And I'm
going to teach you a way to measure your
degree of limbic friction, that is how
much activation energy it will take in
order for you to execute a new habit.
And I'm going to teach you how to
measure your limbic friction and
activation energy for how likely it is
that you're going to be able to break a
habit that you don't want to have. The
other key concept for us to address
that's really mainly found in the books
and articles out there about habits is
this notion of what I call lynchpin
habits. Lynchpin habits are certain
habits that make a lot of other habits
easier to execute.
Now, the sorts of lynchpin habits that
I'm referring to are always going to be
things that you enjoy doing. I'll just
give you an example from my life.
I happen to like exercise, not all forms
of exercise, but I happen to like
resistance training and I happen to like
running.
And for reasons that I'll get into a
little bit later, I place those
activities typically early in the day
because of the neurochemistry and the
various types of hormones, etc. that are
associated with performing those
activities.
But, I really place those activities
under the umbrella of what I call
linchpin habits. Why? Because those
particular habits are easy to execute
because I enjoy them, but they also make
a lot of other habits easier to execute.
Things like being alert for work, things
like making sure that I get good sleep
the night before, things like hydration,
things like making sure that I eat the
foods that are better for me than maybe
some of the other foods that I would
more reflexively reach to if I weren't
doing that training. So, certain habits
act as linchpins, meaning that they
shift a lot of other things. They can
control and bias the likelihood that
in this case, you or me, will perform
other habits that are harder to access,
that we have less of an affinity for.
So, again, there's three concepts that
we need to include here. We've got
identity-based versus goal-based habits.
We've got the concept that different
habits take different periods of time to
adopt depending on the person and the
habit, and that there are these what I
call linchpin habits. Certain habits
that make other habits easier to
execute, and those linchpin habits
always, always, always are things that
we enjoy doing. So, now I'd like to
shift to thinking about a particular
aspect of habits, and that's habit
strength. Habit strength is measured by
two main criteria. The first is how
context-dependent
a given habit is.
So, context dependence is
if you go from one environment to the
next, do you tend to do the same thing
in the same way at the same time of day?
So, for instance, brushing your teeth
first thing in the morning, maybe some
of you do that before breakfast, maybe
some of you do that later, maybe some of
you, like me, don't even eat breakfast.
But,
when I travel, I tend to brush my teeth
at more or less the same time of day
relative to when I wake up as I do when
I'm at home. So, it's context
independent. So, it's a very strong
habit. Right? The other aspect of habit
strength is how much limbic friction is
required to perform that habit on a
regular basis. This is extremely
important because
if you are in the process of building
habits and consolidating those habits,
then it's probably going to take more
limbic friction to execute those habits.
So, these two aspects, context
dependence, whether or not you're likely
to do the thing regardless of where you
are, right? On travel, at home, on
vacation, with people around, not people
around, et cetera, and how much limbic
friction is required to execute that
habit will tell you whether or not that
habit is deeply or just shallowly
embedded within your nervous system. The
goal of any habit that we want to form
is to get into what's called
automaticity. Automaticity is fancy
language for the neural circuits can
perform it automatically, and that's the
ultimate place to be. So, what I'd like
to do is to take the scientific
literature of how the nervous system
learns and engages in neuroplasticity
and apply that to habit formation, habit
maintenance, and if so desired, how to
break particular habits. I'd like to
give you a particular tool that's
gleaned from the research psychology
literature.
I should mention that I learned about
this from an excellent review article
that's available online. It's called
Psychology of Habit. The authors are
Wendy Wood and Dennis Runger. This is
published in
Annual Review of Psychology. They're
talking about the various ways that
habits form in the nervous system, and
they mention with each repetition of a
habit
small changes occur in the cognitive
neural mechanisms associated with
procedural memory. Procedural memory is
holding in mind the specific sequence of
things that need to happen in order for
a particular outcome to occur. Let's say
I want to get into the habit of making
myself or someone else in my household a
cup of espresso every morning.
I would actually think through each of
those steps. Walk into the kitchen, turn
on the espresso machine, draw the
espresso. Walking through each of those
steps from start to finish. It turns out
just that simple mental exercise done
once can shift people toward a much
higher likelihood of performing that
habit regularly, not just the first
time, but as they continue out into the
days and weeks that follow. So this
procedural stepping through of the steps
of the recipe or the series of action
steps that are involved in sitting down
to study and writing for an hour or
generating exercise. Whatever it is the
habit that you're trying to learn. When
you're doing that exercise, it sets in
motion the same neurons that are going
to be required for the execution of that
habit. And so when you actually show up
to perform that habit, it's as if the
dominoes fall more easily. It's it's a
um lower threshold as we say in order to
get the habit to perform. So for those
of you that just want to be more
habitual about certain things, be able
to perform certain things more
reflexively that you would like in your
life, simply take the time, do it once,
maybe twice, and just sit down, close
your eyes if you like, and just step
through the procedure of what it's going
to take in order to perform that habit.
The psychology literature, as I
mentioned, and also the neuroscience
literature
strongly supports the fact that it is
going to make it far easier for you to
adopt and maintain that habit. So now
I'd like to discuss a second and what I
think is perhaps the most powerful tool
for being able to acquire and stick to
new habits. The tool that I'm referring
to is something called task bracketing.
We have in our brain a set of neural
circuits that fall under the umbrella
term of the basal ganglia. The basal
ganglia are involved in action
execution, meaning doing certain things,
and action suppression, not doing
certain things.
In the experimental realm, these are
referred to as go, meaning do, or no go,
don't do, certain things. So, it turns
out that there's an area of our basal
ganglia called the dorsal lateral
striatum. It's very important for the
establishment of behaviors that are
associated with a habit, but not
necessarily the habit itself.
And beautiful studies in both animals
and humans that record the electrical
activity in the dorsal lateral striatum
find that the dorsal lateral striatum is
associated, meaning it becomes active,
at the beginning of a particular habit
and at the very end and after a
particular habit. Hence, the phrase task
bracketing. It brackets the habit. This
is very important because
task bracketing
is what underlies whether or not a habit
will be context dependent or not,
whether or not it will be strong and
likely to occur even if we didn't get a
good night's sleep the night before,
even if we're feeling distracted, even
if we are not feeling like doing
something emotionally, or if we are, you
know, completely overwhelmed by other
events.
If the neural circuits for task
bracketing are deeply embedded in us,
meaning they are very robust around a
particular habit, well then it's likely
that we're going to go out for that zone
two cardio no matter what, that we're
going to brush our teeth no matter what.
In fact, brushing our teeth is a pretty
good example because for most people,
even if you got a terrible night's
sleep, even if everything in your life
is going wrong, chances are, unless
you're very depressed, if you're going
to leave to work or even if you're not,
that you're going to still carry out the
behavior of brushing your teeth in in
morning. I would hope so, actually. But,
you are probably less likely to perform
particular habits that are
not what you deem as necessary. But, if
you think about it,
brushing your teeth, exercise, eating
particular foods, maybe engaging
socially in particular ways,
you are the one that places any kind of
value assessment on which ones are
essential and which ones are negotiable.
So, task bracketing sets a a neural
imprint, a kind of a fingerprint in your
brain of this thing has to happen at
this particular time of day, so much so
that it's reflexive.
And, as we'll talk about in a moment,
there's a way that you can build up task
bracketing so that regardless of what it
is you're trying to learn, there's a
much higher probability that you're
going to do that thing. And when I say
learn, meaning,
let's say you're trying to acquire a
habit that for you is really
challenging. Maybe it's um that you're
going to write for an hour a day on a
book project that you've been thinking
about, or you're going to work on
mathematics, or you're going to do any
sort of thing that for you there's a lot
of limbic friction.
While it is important to think about the
sequence of events that would be
required in order to engage in that
behavior, that procedural memory, uh
visualization exercise we talked about
before, that will help.
There is a way also that you can orient
your nervous system toward this task
bracketing process so that your nervous
system is shifted or oriented towards
the execution of a given habit.
So, this is sort of like warming up your
body to exercise.
When the dorsal lateral striatum is
engaged, your body and your brain are
primed to execute a habit, and then you
get to consciously insert which habit
you want to perform. So, in order to
leverage the neural mechanisms of task
bracketing in order to increase the
likelihood that you're going to perform
a particular habit,
I have to break it to you that one thing
that you've probably heard over and over
about habit formation is not true.
And what I'm referring to is this idea
that if you are very specific about
exactly when you're going to perform a a
particular habit, that you are more
likely to perform that habit.
And while that is true in the short
term, it is not true in the long term.
And the reason for that is that our
nervous system tends to generate
particular kinds of behaviors based not
on time, but on our state. Meaning what
level of activation is taking place in
our brain and body. How much focus we
happen to have. How fatigued we are. How
energized we are.
So, while schedules are important, it's
not the specific time of day per se
that's going to allow you to get into a
habit and form that habit and
consolidate that habit. Rather, it's the
state that your brain and body are in
that's important to anchor yourself to.
And so, now I'm going to present a very
straightforward, but neurobiologically
grounded program by which you can insert
particular types of habits that you want
to perform at particular
phases of the day. Not times a day, but
in particular phases of the day. Because
it turns out that particular phases of
the day are associated with particular
biological underpinnings, chemicals, and
neural circuits, and so forth.
It involves dividing the 24-hour days
into what I call three phases. The first
is phase one, which is 0 to 8 hours
after waking up,
approximately. The second phase is the 9
to 14, maybe 15 hours after you wake up.
And the third phase is 16 to 24 hours
after waking up. So, we've taken the
24-hour cycle, we've carved it up into
three phases, phase one, phase two, and
phase three.
Phase one, which again is 0 to 8 hours
after waking, has a particular
neurochemical signature.
Regardless of what you do, the
neuromodulators norepinephrine, as well
as epinephrine, so that's noradrenaline
and adrenaline, as well as the the
dopamine, tend to be elevated during
that first 0 to 8 hours after waking.
Right, in that first phase, your whole
system is action and focus-oriented.
And we know that when you're
action-and-focus-oriented,
and because of the neurochemicals
that are naturally released into your
brain and body,
that you will be more likely to overcome
any limbic friction that stands in the
way of performing particular habits. So,
as you list out or think about the
various habits that you'd like to adopt
in your life,
take the habits for which you know
there's the highest degree of limbic
friction. They are the hardest for you
to engage in. They require the most
activation energy, and put those in this
0 to 8 hours after waking. This will
greatly facilitate your performance of
those new habits. By placing them in
this broader window of of 0 to 8 hours
after waking, what you're doing is
you're creating task bracketing. You're
making it such that your nervous system
will predict when you are going to lean
in against limbic friction in order to
perform particular types of habits.
Phase two, as I mentioned, is about,
again, these aren't specifics, but about
9 to 14 or 15 hours after waking.
During this phase of the day, because of
the circadian shifts in our biology,
dopamine and norepinephrine and cortisol
are starting to taper down just
naturally, and a different
neuromodulator, serotonin, is starting
to rise.
Serotonin is definitely going to be
highest in this second half of the day,
and tends to lend itself to a more
relaxed state of being. There are
certain things that we all can and
should do during this phase two of each
day that lend themselves to a state of
mind and a state of body that is going
to be beneficial for the generation and
consolidation of certain types of
habits. What are those things? First of
all, as the day goes on, you should try
if you can to start tapering the amount
of really bright light that you're
getting unless it's sunlight.
Talked about this before on the podcast,
but if you haven't heard,
viewing the sun as it's what we call low
solar angle, so as it's headed toward
the horizon, but getting some sunlight
in your eyes in the second half of the
day can also be beneficial for a number
of brain systems and psychological
systems. Things like heat and sauna, hot
baths, hot showers. Those are terrific
things to do in the second half of the
day. They tend to support this
serotonergic or high serotonin-like
state and lend themselves to more calm
and relaxation. Basically, this phase
two of the day is one in which you're
alert, you are present, you are working,
you are engaging socially, you're
cooking dinner, probably paying
attention to a number of things, but you
should really be trying to taper off
your stress level. So, how do you
leverage phase two of the day for habit
formation? Well, given what we know
about the neurochemistry of learning and
memory, given what we know about task
formation and its reliance on certain
forms of neuroplasticity, the second
half of the day is a terrific time to
take on
habits and things that you're already
doing that require very little override
of limbic friction. So, these might be
things that you could categorize in
common terms as kind of mellower
activities. It might be journaling. It
might be
that you already are performing music or
I should say practicing music regularly
or you're trying to learn a language,
something that's a little bit
challenging, but doesn't require a ton
of energy in order to override that
limbic friction. One of the hallmark
features of those basal ganglia circuits
for go and no go is that they are
associated with certain neurochemicals,
dopamine and serotonin, acetylcholine,
and other neurochemicals. And by placing
particular habits at particular phases
of the day, those neurochemical states
start to be associated with the leaning
in and the process of beginning and as I
mentioned ending those particular
habits. And in doing so, they shift the
whole nervous system toward being able
to predict that certain things are going
to happen at particular times of day.
That you're going to be leaning very
hard against limbic friction early in
the day in phase one. And that you're
going to be doing things that require
less conscious override of limbic
friction in phase two. And in doing so,
set up this task bracketing system so
that the individual habits that you're
learning or that you're trying to learn
have a much greater probability of being
executed and consolidated, meaning that
pretty soon that they will just
naturally become reflexive. Phase three
of the 24-hour schedule
runs from about 16 to 24 hours after
waking.
During that period of time
there are a few things that are going to
support being in a state of mind
state of body that are going to allow
neuroplasticity to occur. That are going
to allow the re-wiring that you've
triggered during the waking part of the
day to actually take place.
Those things are very low to no light.
Meaning keeping your environment very
dark or very very dim.
I don't think it's necessary to sleep in
a room that's complete blackness, but
for most people keeping the room dark
and keeping the room temperature low is
very beneficial for getting and staying
in deep sleep.
A lot of people recommend putting a gap
between your final bite of food and when
you go to sleep at night. Some people
say that gap should be 4 hours, other
people say 2 hours. If you're me, I
generally have something I don't know
within
2 hours or 90 minutes of going to sleep,
but it's not a big meal. But that's just
me and I fall asleep and stay asleep
fine with that. What if you wake up? The
way I've cast phase three is that you're
supposed to be in this deep slumber.
You're not supposed to wake up at all.
You're supposed to be in low light and
your brain is re-wiring and those habits
are getting consolidated, etc. Well, if
you're like me, you probably get up once
in the middle of the night. perfectly
normal. But a lot of people have trouble
falling back asleep.
Very important if you get up in the
middle of the night to use a minimum of
light in order to navigate your
surroundings just as much as you need in
order to safely do so
because light inhibits the hormone
melatonin, can make it very hard to fall
back asleep if you inhibit melatonin.
Again, neuroplasticity is the basis of
habit formation and neuroplasticity and
the rewiring of neural circuits happens
in these states of deep sleep. So if
you're not obeying this phase three, if
you're not giving phase three the
materials it needs and you're and you're
not avoiding the certain things like
caffeine and bright light and stress
during phase three, you're simply not
going to be able to build those habits
that you've been working so hard to
trigger in phase one and phase two of
the day. I fully acknowledge that many
of the things that I've listed out here
are things that I've encouraged people
to do in previous episodes of the
podcast and elsewhere.
But really this is about habit formation
and the whole reason for placing
particular types of behaviors at
particular phases of the day is to set a
framework for that task bracketing.
Again, task bracketing and those
circuits of the basal ganglia indicate
that it's not just the neural circuits
that are engaged by the task itself
but the neural circuits that are engaged
before and after that task execution.
That's what gets consolidated. So when
you do things at particular phases of
the day
under particular conditions of
neurochemistry, what you're doing is
you're giving the brain a very
predictable set of sequences that during
sleep it can start to put into your hard
drive, if you will. It can really
program it into your nervous system so
that within a short period of time,
hopefully within
18 or maybe even six days or who knows,
maybe even fewer days, you'll find that
executing those behaviors is very, very
straightforward for you and that you
won't have to
feel so much limbic friction or override
so much limbic friction. Some of you are
probably asking, "Okay,
if I
perform a particular habit during phase
one,
and then I do other habits during phase
two, and I eventually get to the point
where I'm engaging in those habits in a
pretty effortless way, do I keep them in
the same phase of the day?" And the good
news is, the literature says it doesn't
matter. And in fact, moving that
particular habit around somewhat
randomly can actually be official to
you, because actually moving it from one
time of day to the other is that context
independence that we we really are
seeking. By
being able to do the same thing that we
want to do regardless of time of day or
circumstances, that's how we know that
we've achieved a real habit formation.
That's how we know that the habit has
been moved into certain components of
our neural circuitry that just allows us
to do it what seems like reflexively.
Although earlier I pointed out that
these aren't reflexes in the traditional
sense.
The reason for that is that this brain
area, the hippocampus that many of you
know is associated with learning and
memory, is not actually where memories
are stored. The hippocampus is where
memories are formed. It's where
procedures, like I talked about before,
procedural memory of how you're going to
execute a particular sequence, where
that's maintained.
So, that whole process of really leaning
into something that's hard, then it
becoming easier, and then eventually
that thing becoming more or less
reflexive, involves a migration of the
information in the brain.
And once it's migrated out to a
different location in the brain, at that
point, it's achieved context
independence. It doesn't have to be
bracketed by uh you know, your caffeine
and your lunch. It doesn't have to occur
uh
immediately after your afternoon NSDR,
but before your uh 4:00 meeting on Zoom
or something of that sort. So,
all this is to say that once something
has become reflexive,
you should play with it a little bit
about time of day. If you want to keep
it in the same phase of day, great. But
if you
one day decide you're going to exercise
in the afternoon, next day you decide
you're going to exercise in the morning,
and that's the habit that you're
concerned with, that's terrific. If
you're able to do that, that means that
it's truly achieved context
independence. It means that you have
officially formed that habit. And as I
mentioned earlier, much earlier at the
beginning of the episode, the strength
of a habit is dictated by how much
limbic friction, that was phase one,
and how much context dependence there
is. So when it doesn't take much
activation energy to get into the
execution of that habit, and you can do
it in any context, well, then you have
formed a habit. Way back at the
beginning of the episode, I promised you
that I would deliver two programs that
are geared towards habit formation. And
I promised that I would give you ways in
which you could gauge whether or not
certain habits had moved from high
effort,
what I call high limbic friction, to
reflexive.
In researching this episode, I found a
tremendous number of different systems
for habit formation. I want to spell out
a particular system that I think could
be very useful to most if not all
people, that's
rooted in the biology of habit
formation, rooted in the psychology of
habit formation, and that is entirely
compatible with that phase one, phase
two, phase three type program that I
talked about earlier,
but encompasses a bit of a longer time
scale, and really arrives at a kind of a
system, if you will,
for how to build in habits. And so, this
is, at least for sake of this example, a
21-day system. I picked 21 days because
that seems to be the average or most
typical system for engaging neural
plasticity as it relates to the
formation of new habits. So basically
what this involves is
you set out to
perform six new habits per day
across the course of 21 days. The idea
is you write down six things that you
would like to do every day for 21 days.
However, the expectation
is that you'll only complete four to
five of those each day.
Okay? So, built into this is a kind of
permission to fail, but it's not failure
because it turns out that this
approach to forming habits is based not
so much on the specific habits that
you're trying to form, but the habit of
performing habits, right? It's the habit
of doing a certain number of things per
day.
So, you set out to perform six. Now,
another reason for not necessarily
performing all six is that some
activities probably shouldn't be
performed each day. For instance, in my
case, if I were to weight train or even
run every day, I'm of the sort or my
biology is is of the sort that I don't
recover so well. So, I wouldn't want to
do resistance training every day, but I
might want to do it four days a week,
for instance. So, by having six things
in that list, I could shuffle out that
particular activity on particular days
of the week and simply do four or five
other activities. If you miss a day,
meaning you don't perform four to five
things, there is no punishment. And in
fact, it's important that you don't
actually try and do what in the
literature is called a habit slip
compensation, which is just fancy
psychological language for if you screw
up and you don't get
all four or five in one day, you don't
do eight the next day in order to
compensate.
After 21 days, you stop engaging in this
21-day deliberate four to five things
per day type schedule.
And you simply go into autopilot. You
ask yourself how many of those
particular habits that I was
deliberately trying to learn in the
previous 21 days are automatically
incorporated into my schedule? How many
of them am I naturally doing? In other
words, every 21 days you don't update
and start adding new habits. You're
simply going to assess how well, how
deeply you rewired your nervous system
to be able to perform those six habits
of the previous 21 days. Many people are
trying to cram so many new behaviors
into their nervous system that they
don't stand a chance of learning all
those behaviors. What you may find is
that you kept up two of those things
very consistently throughout the 21
days. And perhaps there was one of them
that you did sporadically. And that
there were three others that frankly you
didn't manage to execute. You may also
be one of these people, one of these
mutants, that sets out to do six new
things per day for 21 days and performs
every single one of them. Terrific. More
power to you. In that case, for the
following 21 days,
let's see whether or not you can
continue to perform those very same six
things every day for 21 days. And then,
and only then, would you want to add
more habits in. So, you could repeat
this 21-day process, you know, 21 days
of of new habit, 21 days of testing
those new habits as whether or not
they're reflexive or not. The idea is
that this isn't something that you're
doing all year long. It's that you,
perhaps starting the new year or
regardless of when you're listening to
this, you set out to make that 21 day
really the stimulus period in which the
habits get wired in. And then the
following month, and maybe even the
following months or periods of 21 days,
are really the kind of thermometer or
the test bed of how well you've embedded
those particular habits.
And if indeed you want to continue to
add new habits, or you find that certain
habits that you weren't able to embed in
your nervous system and make reflexive,
you want to then bring those in.
Fantastic. But it's only once you've
achieved all those six habits as
reflexive that you would move forward.
And the fact that habit slips, missing
of particular habits, and not doing all
six is kind of built into the system, I
think makes it a very reasonable one.
It's a very uh adaptable to the real
world. And I think it's one that
provided you obey the
phase one, phase two, phase three type
system that we talked about earlier. If
you do that, then I think there's a very
high probability that the habits that
you try and form will achieve this
context dependence and that it will take
progressively less and less limbic
friction to perform them. Thus far,
we've almost exclusively been discussing
how to form habits. But what about
breaking habits? Certainly many people
out there would like to break habits
that they feel don't serve them well.
One of the challenges in breaking habits
is that many habits occur very, very
quickly. And so there isn't an
opportunity to intervene until the habit
has already been initiated and in some
cases completed. So it turns out that
the key to generating long-term
depression in these pathways
is actually
to
take the period immediately following
the bad habit execution and in that
moment capture the sequence of events
not that led to the bad habit execution,
but actually to take advantage of the
fact that the neurons that were
responsible for generating that bad
habit were
were active a moment ago
and to actually engage in a replacement
behavior immediately afterward. So let's
give it an example. Let's say you find
yourself um you're trying to do focused
work, you pick up your phone, you're
disappointing yourself for for picking
up your phone.
You could of course just put it down or
you and re-engage
in the work behavior, but if you were
good at that, then you probably wouldn't
have done it in the first place. And so
what turns out to be very effective is
to go engage in some other positive
habit. This has two major effects. The
first one is you start to link in time
the execution of a bad behavior to this
other good behavior. In other words, you
start to create a kind of a double habit
that starts with a bad habit and then
ends with a good habit. So as I
mentioned before, this might seem
counterintuitive. You might think why
would I want to reward the execution of
a bad habit with a good habit. I don't
want to reward myself for the bad habit,
but really what you're trying to do is
you're trying to change the nature of
the neural circuits that are firing so
that you can rewrite the script for that
bad habit. And so, when people have
applied this kind of approach,
it removes the need to have constant
conscious awareness of one's own
behavior prior to that behavior, which
is very, very difficult to achieve.
Rather,
what they find is that they are able to
engage in remapping of the neural
circuits associated with bad habits in
ways that are very, very
straightforward, right? Because you can
always identify when you've done the
thing you don't want to do, and then
attach onto that something additional
that's positive. Now, the nature of that
positive thing is important. You don't
want it to be something that's very hard
to execute. You want it to be something
that's positive and fairly easy to
execute so that you're not struggling
all the time to insert this on top of
this bad behavior,
whatever that bad behavior might happen
to be. And of course, I want to
acknowledge that breaking bad habits is
really hard. So, today we've covered a
lot about the biology and psychology of
habit formation and habit breaking.
My hope is that today you've learned
both the biological mechanisms and the
practical tools by which you can start
to establish habits that for you you
deem adaptive, healthy, and that are
going to support you in your goals, and
that you can start to dismantle some of
the habits that you find to be unhealthy
or maladaptive for you and for your
goals. And once again, I want to thank
you for going on this journey of
exploring the neuroscience and the
psychology of habit formation and habit
breaking. I hope it supports you in your
goals, and last but certainly not least,
thank you for your interest in science.