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The founders of America possessed an extraordinary courage that went beyond military bravery on the battlefield; it was a moral fortitude required to sign documents they feared might be their death warrants. Many of these leaders were remarkably young, with some in their early twenties and others averaging only thirty or forty years old at the time of independence. This willingness to risk everything stemmed largely from their deep engagement with classical ideas, particularly Stoic philosophy, which provided them with a framework for action rather than passive resignation. A prime example of this influence is the play *Cato*, based on the life of the Roman stoic Cato Major, which was so popular in the eighteenth century that many famous lines and sentiments from the American Revolution were direct allusions to it. Even George Washington attended a performance of this play at Valley Forge during one of the war's darkest moments specifically to draw courage for himself and his troops.
The historical record reveals that Stoicism was not merely an academic pursuit but a revolutionary force, as seen in Portia Cato's pivotal role in inspiring Brutus against Caesar and the subsequent generation of stoics who opposed tyrannical emperors by dying rather than compromising their principles. This spirit of resistance resonated with Washington, whose favorite quote from *Cato* emphasized that no one is fit to rule unless they are first a master of themselves. His ability to remain calm during crises like the Newburgh Conspiracy was not an innate trait but a disciplined practice of viewing situations through reason and justice rather than passion or anger. John Adams noted that Washington's self-command required immense work, while Gouverneur Morris observed that beneath his serene exterior lay incredible passions he had successfully mastered. Thus, true leadership in this context is defined as victory over one's own impulses, allowing individuals to stand firm against distraction and outrage even when others are losing their minds.
Ultimately, the video argues that becoming a great person or achieving success does not happen through radical transformations but through consistent daily habits built on Stoic practices such as journaling and self-reflection. Marcus Aurelius serves as an enduring example of this philosophy in action; he was not born wise but became so by changing one habit at a time, proving that anyone can achieve greatness through gradual improvement rather than relying solely on willpower. The core message is that courage involves the daily choice to speak up, think for oneself, and embrace new challenges despite fear or criticism. By adopting these practices, individuals create calm within their own storms and develop the resilience necessary to lead effectively in turbulent times.
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I think we sometimes underestimate the
raw courage that the founders had, not
just on the battlefield, but to take the
stand that they did. There's a famous
letter between Benjamin Rush and John
Adams where he says, "Do you recollect
the pensive and awful silence which
pervaded the house when we were called
up one after another to sign what we
thought might be our own death warrant."
And it's shocking when you really look
at it just how young many of the
founders were, too. The average age is
late 30s, early 40s, or some as young as
their early 20s. These are people who
putting it all on the line, who are
betting that they can do something
better than it has ever been done. So,
where did they get this courage? What
were they drawing on? Well, they were
largely drawing on their understanding
of classical ideas, classical virtue,
and classical heroes. The most famous
play of the 18th century was a play
called Cato. You could argue it was the
Hamilton of its day. All the founders
see it multiple times. It's about the
defender of the Roman Republic, the
great stoic philosopher. Many of the the
famous lines in the American Revolution
are actually, if you had seen this play,
you would have understood they were
lines or illusions to that play.
Washington actually puts on Joseph
Addison's Cato at Valley Forge, the
lowest [music] point of the American
Revolution. He is turning to Cato to
give himself and his men courage.
[music] My point is that the stoics were
not passive. They were not academic
philosophers in the 18th century or
2,000 years earlier. They were not
resigned. They were literally
revolutionaries. Portia Cato, Cato's
daughter, is totally undersold her role
in the assassination of Caesar. It's
actually she who gives uh Brutus the
spine to do what he needs to do. There's
a whole generation of stoics known as
the stoic opposition who stand up to the
tyrannical emperors that come after
Caesar. [music] In fact, uh there's a
blanket ban on philosophers in Rome
because to be a Stoic philosopher was to
be synonymous with being part of the
opposition, or today we might call the
resistance. Many of them die as a result
of this adherence to principle, this
courage. And and so my argument is
courage is is yes, sometimes it's life
or death thing, but it's also just the
courage to put yourself out there to try
new things, to be weird, to speak up, to
try things that haven't been done
before, to think for yourself. This idea
of if not you, then who, and if not now,
then when. This is by standing up, by
speaking up, by being the person we are
meant to be, thinking for ourselves,
being our unique selves, this is
courage. Sometimes it's life or death
courage, and sometimes it's just the
courage to be criticized, [music]
to look askance at. The greatest empire,
the Stoics would say, is command of
oneself. No one is fit to rule, they
said, who is not first [music] master of
themselves. Washington, again, he loves
this play about Cato, and his favorite
quote is, as I said, a line from this
play. He would talk about looking at
everything in the calm light of mild
philosophy. In fact, he recites this
exact quote at the scene of the Newburgh
Conspiracy, where he talks the
group of disgruntled Continental
soldiers out of overthrowing the
government. To look at everything not in
the light of passion and anger and
grievance, but in calmness, in
rationality, and justice. And this was
not his natural disposition, it should
be
>> [music]
>> worth saying. He is not literally made
of marble, he is flesh and blood.
Stoicism is not something you are, it's
something you do, right? It's a
practice. John Adams would say that
Washington had a great self-command, but
that required a great amount of work.
And Gouverneur Morris would say that
underneath Washington's calm demeanor
was in fact incredible passions, and
that his first and perhaps his greatest
victory was not on the battlefield, but
over these very passions. And that's
what discipline is. That's what this
virtue is. Command of oneself. Looking
at things in the calm light of mild
philosophy, not the heat of the moment.
It is victory over ourselves. It's
victory over the phone. It's victory
over the news cycle that wants to
distract us and and anger us and get us
bogged down in the details. It is the
practice of journaling, which stoicism
is. Again, Marcus Aurelius' Meditations,
which survives to us is the private
thoughts of the most powerful man
[music]
in the world. It's about creating calm
within the storm, grabbing firm hold of
ourselves as everyone else is losing
their mind.
>> This guy behind me, Marcus Aurelius, he
wasn't born Marcus Aurelius. He became
Marcus Aurelius one day at a time, one
habit at a time, one change at a time.
Which is, by the way, how we all become
great. There's all these things that we
want to do. There's these changes
[music] we want to make. There's these
habits we want to start. There're these
habits we want to break. There're these
things we know that we're capable of.
The problem isn't knowing what we want
to do. It's knowing how to do it. It's
how to make that a conscious habit.
Well, that's what the Daily Stoic Habits
for Success, Habits for Happiness course
is all about. It is a 6-week challenge
[music] built around the best Stoic
practices to help you build better
habits one day at a time. It's
challenges 6 days a week that push you
to be better, that get outside your
comfort zone. The point is, you don't
have to figure out where to start. We're
going to take care of that for you. You
don't have to rely just on raw
willpower. There's no radical, magical
transformation. It's one habit at a
time. [music] It's not passive stuff for
you to read once and forget. It's going
to require showing up every day. There's
no way around that. It's a [music]
challenge, right? And you're going to
have to show up and meet that challenge.
But if you do that, you come better.
[music] I have become better from doing
it over the years. Six weeks of daily
challenges, better habits, and you can
join us at dailystoic.com/habits.